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    Trauma Healing

    The four steps of personal transformation

    30th January 2017 /

    “Personal transformation is the Dark Night of The Soul – you enter the unknown darkness, you face your frightful demons, but you always, always come out of it more powerful, more resilient and more resourceful. You are a Warrior of The Light.” Personal transformation is normally triggered by painful events in one’s life. Something happens and we reach a point when we’re either forced or we willingly choose the brambly path of evolution. We recognize some things in our lives don’t work anymore and need to change, we start actively questioning our beliefs and thought processes, and we’re open to learning new concepts and incorporating new philosophies. We embark on a whole new…

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    You deserve your love

    14th August 2017
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    Coming full circle

    16th August 2017
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    Turning seasons and the possibility of new horizons

    27th September 2018
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    Trauma Healing

    Crisis as a call for change and how to integrate it in your life

    21st November 2015 /

    “Crisis is a call for change and when it comes in your life, make sure you give yourself the necessary time to understand its full meaning. Crisis gives you the opportunity to find the hidden gold in your shadow.” I am just coming out of a personal crisis which started a few months ago and was triggered by the death of my sister. This loss followed the death of our mother 5 years earlier. Two people of my 4-member family are now forever gone from my present life. They live in my past and, perhaps, our souls will meet again in the future beyond. I dedicate my writing work to…

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    I am the person I am because of my trauma image

    I am the person I am today because of my trauma, not despite it

    19th December 2019
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    Using crystals to access the subconscious and heal deep wounds

    28th November 2017
    Accepting Our Shadow Image

    Accepting our shadow as a way back to wholeness

    6th June 2018
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    Trauma Healing

    The death of the self: on toddler troubles, being human and name change

    4th November 2015 /

    Sounds like an absurd combination of things and what does it have to do with the self? So here’s what happened last week – a mush of emotional turmoil, child’s excrement and personal transformation. My 2 1/2 year-old son Sylvian woke up in the middle of the night with a dreadful cough. He was wheezing and it sounded like he was barely able to breathe. I’ve never heard him like that, it sounded like he was suffocating. Together with my partner we wondered shall we go to the Emergency department. A short while later my son went back to sleep, still wheezing but at least able to breathe. In the morning…

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    Turning seasons and the possibility of new horizons

    27th September 2018
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    A strange day… in a beautiful and vulnerable way

    7th March 2017
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    To my dear child

    4th September 2017
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    Trauma Healing

    Four things I’ve learned from going through a crisis

    29th October 2015 /

    “A crisis gives you the opportunity to face your deepest flaws and fears, take responsibility for your life, and turn the pain something beautiful.” For the last 5 years I have been going through some tough times. Living away from my family and friends in a foreign country, losing two of my closest people to cancer and trying to cope with motherhood and unemployment is roughly describing the picture. Yet, these hardships prompted me to explore my life situation and find the lessons in it. Here’s what I’ve learned. 1. Take the Time to Process First of all that means to acknowledge that something is happening to you. Try not…

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    Pain is the means, love is the end

    31st July 2017
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    Heal yourself, heal the world

    27th March 2018
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    “If I only could make them happy…”

    16th May 2019
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    Trauma Healing

    Finding peace in the midst of a crisis

    1st October 2015 /

      I am officially back to my blog after 2 years of silence. God works in mysterious ways! I went through all my previous posts and also published the last one which was left unfinished. I decided I want to share it all out even though it might not be perfectly written or even completed. It is part of me and this space here is a safe place for all of us to share weaknesses and strengths at the same time. It is somewhat hard to make the transition from 2 years ago to now, it feels like there should be a link, a passage, a connection of some sort…

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    The pandemic as an opportunity to continue healing – repairing what was once ruptured

    7th July 2021
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    Why holding space is so important in relationships

    11th October 2016
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    The anatomy of desire and manifesting

    28th September 2017
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I am Vilina Christoph and I write about my journey of healing from childhood trauma and emotional neglect. I use words to transmute the pain from the adverse experiences into fuel for growth and empowerment. I believe we have the ability to heal ourselves and transform our lives from within. I am passionate about helping others heal and grow to become their authentic selves and create an abundant life.

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